Dr. Barek Sharif Dr. Barek Sharif

Why Does Therapy Suck for Men?

Well, it shouldn’t, but it sure seems like it does. There are a few things that can make therapy less than ideal for men. Let’s start with the elephant in the room – guys don’t do therapy because they’re “weak” if they do. This is the sentiment that so many people believe, which results in mental health practitioners tailoring therapy specifically for men.

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Why People Are Hesitant About Therapy

Despite growing awareness around mental health, many people still feel hesitant to seek therapy. This reluctance can stem from various factors, and understanding these barriers is key to fostering a culture of openness and support.

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The Subtle Differences Between Audible and Emotional Loudness

In our daily lives, we often encounter two distinct types of loudness: the audible kind that assaults our ears and the emotional kind that stirs our inner peace. While both can be uncomfortable, they affect us in profoundly different ways.

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The “Black Sheep” Is Right

The problem child, the reject, the one who just doesn’t fit in. We see the phenomenon of black sheep throughout society and countless families. What does this mean? As a relational therapist I view the black sheep as a reflection of the system, aka the family.

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Embracing Body Neutrality

In today’s society, where the media constantly bombards us with images of “ideal” bodies, many people struggle with body image issues. These issues can lead to low self-esteem, anxiety, and even eating disorders. While body positivity has gained momentum as a movement to counteract these negative influences, there’s another approach that’s gaining traction: body neutrality.

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Fight Night: Characterizing vs Describing

On the fight card today it’s a head-to-head with…ourselves.

What exactly do I mean? I’m talking about the daily battle between the ‘good’ and ‘bad’ that exists in our minds. I’m not sure if you’ve taken notice but there seems to be a push and pull struggle with how we view and talk about ourselves – which oftentimes isn’t very productive or supportive.

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